[M.I.L.F. and D.I.L.F.: the opposites that SHOULDN'T attract.]
So as I sat not long ago, watching a black ops 2 zombies video while eating dinner (don't ask about the correlation, because there is none), I had a thought come to me.
When you think of Milfs in doujin and hentai commonly, (with exception to the lolibabas) they are usually the most milk and cake heavy pieces of delicious dessert.
When you see the dilf tag, it is the bane of your existence.
Most of the time, with exception to the few where the man is actually skinny with an average appearance at best or is muscle bound, he is a monster. The absolute monstrosity of old, fat, an abomination straight from the Depths of hell that even Satan would say,"God damn that is ugly".
So it brought the thought to me, why is it that in your normal milf doujin, you have a goddess of a woman, while with dilf doujins, you often see if Quasimodo kissed a belt sander.?
It reminds you that the markets for the doujin are catered to their specific demographic; MILF for the men and DILF for the women.
With MILF, obviously you want the visual appeal of the beautiful woman with a motherly mentality. Peak Beating material if you want to mix plot and design.
With DILF a lot more starts to make sense when you add the other corresponding tags of Rape, prostitution, and UB mixed with dilf. If you remember, looking back at Redo of healer but also the pornhub stat from years ago, and probably still even modern stats, women love themselves some Rape fantasies, even to the point of them making it up.
It comes down to the domination part, them resisting and being mind broken by some ugly disgusting beast, not Chad chadington making them realize their place and that they aren't more than slabs of fuckmeat, (the type of woman that would make feminazis scream but also cream their pants over). It's the fantasy, similarly to men with milf, that they want to know their place, where they don't anymore irl.